June 9, 2008
An encounter is best when unsullied by intentions, leaving lust or boredom to take over.

Modern Love - Why Spoil Great Sex by Dating? - NYTimes.com

THIS ENTIRE ESSAY IS FABULOUS. It’s a winner, not a runner-up!!

I agree with absolutely everything** in it, to the point where I could’ve written it (I think I have written a few things like it). I could totally have no-strings sex and long-winded philosophical talks that lead to matching ankle tattoos with the writer. Who happens to be from USC, which happens to have a football program I worship. *sigh*

**Actually, I don’t agree with everything. I’ve been on quite a few dates. Most of them were highly less-than-stellar.